After
finishing up the second half of, “As Nature Made Him”, it made me feel very
glad to have a happy childhood. The thing that David Reimer went through was
very harsh and it put him through so many psychological and physical states. I find it impossible for David to live pass
his teenage years, because it is one of the most difficult times a person goes
through in school if they lack confident in them. This made him a strong
person, but I don’t think there is ever a cure for a psychological problem that
he had, only he could cure it himself.
Even
though the experiment seems to be a total failure, I think it is still possible
because I felt that Ron and Janet, David Reimer’s parents, were too cautious
about what he did. This made David doubt himself about his gender and question
everything. The same goes for Dr.Money, his psychological practices is very
disturbed for a child under 13 to see. His licensed should be revoked and his
practice should be tabooed. David’s childhood was completely destroyed; he went
through the conflict of going from one psychiatrist to another psychiatrist. He
went through so many different doctors that he knew what to say what they
wanted to hear. I find that once he was able to do that, a psychologist was not
necessary anymore because his only problem is the forced identity that he had
to play.
From
reading As Nature Made Him, I discovered that gender identity is a big issue to
the world. I never thought it that way because I thought it was just male and
female during birth and I thought the circumcision was a choice not a necessary
process. I use to think that people have their baby circumcised because it was
a religious or cultural thing and not because of a medical reason. I think that
David’s play a huge role in the medical field because he went through a phase
where no one had to go through before. Despite the massive bullying he had to
go through, it still affected his life dramatically.
I think
if Ron and Janet just let the construction of David’s identity play it own
parts, he would have had a better life. Janet should not feel guilty for the circumcision
or the research study of Dr.Money because it was all an accident. The only
guilt they should have is making David feel special. This made the construction
of his identity fail and make him lose sight of who he should really be. From
my perspective after reading this book I think nature dominates over nurture.
You're right. We all should be happy that we were not growing up in the David's situation. It is just too hard to handle. The thought of going through such tragedy creeps me out. And yes, Dr Money didn't deserve to be a doctor, his morality is just unaccepted. How can a doctor only consider his own reputation instead of what his patient has to go through. Janet thought of Dr. Money as an angel and rescuer that I thought of him as an evil human being. He completely destroyed David's life physically and psychologically.
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